Centuries ago, a famous Greek thinker said: the only thing permanent is change. We must prepare our children for a world in constant change, to the world of the future, nor that of our parents, or our own. In this world today the determining factor for success will be the character, not knowledge. Have temple to exit the failures properly and make them a challenge rather than a tragedy. That will be what the selectors of staff seek. For self-employed workers, it must be a self-imposed requirement. A son forged his character if it perceives the authority of their parents.
With presence of authority, children and young people will also act with authority to resolve their own problems. However, in the absence of authority will be weak-willed and will act by impulses, with the consequent problems of adaptation. What happens if there is excess of authority?, actually it is always better to lack it. We can then ask ourselves what is the limit? There is a rule practical and easily identifiable authority not must humiliate. It is very important to remember that what is today, the child will be the adult of tomorrow. If we do not suffer, then we must prepare them to suffer.
If we avoid all suffering they will learn when and how to grow? Instead of solving all their problems, should help themselves to resolve them. You have to teach how to use the fishing pole instead of giving them the fish nobody achieves goals successful and lasting without a bit of suffering. To understand this it is enough to think of outstanding athletes of high performance, reached an Olympiad in which means and achieve a prominent place. We must teach them to make further efforts, who know that it can always be a little bit more. Nobody collects his harvest without having planted many seeds and pay much land.